Fear of Public Speaking, Pt. III

Fear doesn’t just exist for the days and hours prior to an event.

In Pt. III of this series, I am going to address tips and tactics when the nerves kick in within minutes of your presentation actually beginning (although every one of these tactics also work hours and days before as well).

1. Body Movement - A few minutes before “taking the stage” –  “Waggle” (lateral movement) your jaw; bend forward and dangle your arms and let them shake; shake your hands over your head; utilize simple stretches and isometric stretches (more on that later) — all of these movements, when incorporated with proper breathing, warm the body, relax the mind and calm your nerves.

2. Body Movement, Pt II - As a former amateur boxer, nothing prepares me to speak better than light shadow boxing a few minutes before I have to speak.  I know a CEO who (literally) does 20 pushups prior to every earnings call.  Still another prominent political figure actually “swings” a tennis racket prior to giving a major address.*  The point is, focused movement helps even more than just for generic movement because…

3. Visualization – …it works.  Professional boxers, when shadow boxing, do not throw random punches — they are visualizing an opponent and quite literally sparring with that visualization.  Ballplayers do the same thing before approaching the plate.  Elite athletes, musicians, actors and dancers utilize visualization regularly — Todd Hargrove has an excellent article on visualization in athletics here.  Visualization, if done properly, works for speakers and presenters as well.

Stay tuned, Pt IV will focus on tools and tactics when the presentation or speech actually begins….

*If you are in a crowd or a situation where you are not by yourself immediately prior to presenting, please send an email and I will give you some pointers on how to improvise.

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  1. avatar Justin C Says:

    I really like #2. Really interesting to hear that actually doing those movements can help get you ready for the talk, call, etc.

  2. avatar Fred E. Miller Says:

    Matt:

    Good suggestions!

    One thing to remember is that the audience is pulling for you. they not only want you to be successful in your talk, they’re very glad it is YOU and not them at the lectern.

    Another thing: NEVER tell the audience you are nervous. It will be a self-fullfilling expectation and the audience will be looking for it.

    Thanks!

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  4. avatar Doreen Hamilton Says:

    I like your suggestion of warming the body. As a psychologist working with this type of fear, I hear people talk about getting cold. It seems like their body shuts down and doesn’t want to move forward. All systems go to stop, and isn’t that the nature of fear…don’t move toward that which scares you? Thanks for your posts and your guidance.

    Doreen Hamilton, Ph.D.
    Clinical Psychologist
    http://www.essentialspeaking.com

  5. avatar Bogdan Bocse Says:

    Fear has no room in your mind as long as you:
    focus on what you know and
    are enthusiastic about the idea you’re speaking about.

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